My goal is to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be (in life, love, career, etc), and I’ve created a methodology to get you there.
I’m glad you’re here because it means we have something in common.
We’re both unwilling to settle.
Our desire to be the best drives every decision we make (whether or not it works out, we generally take the gamble).
This is how I know we’re going to get along. You deserve the best, and I’m here to show you how to get it.
I help you get what you want by setting actionable steps that get you into the relationship, career, and life you love; fast.
You might already know me…
If I look familiar, there could be a few reasons (some less embarrassing than others). Once upon a time in my early 20s I was a cast member on MTV’s The Real World, Brooklyn.
While living in NYC, I decided to become a DJ, and traveled nationwide playing music for screaming fans (just kidding - let’s be real, my fans weren’t old enough to get into clubs). Simultaneously, I was going through a quarter-life crisis (which I later found out was just my early twenties) and thought it would be a great idea to get my yoga teacher training license and open a yoga studio.
So, I moved from New York City to Aspen, Colorado to become a mountain woman yogini. Right around this time I had a series of dating experiences that sparked my fascination with relationships (and why mine kept failing). I packed my bags once again and headed to Salt Lake City where I co-founded my first dating company at 24 years old.
My partner and I were matchmakers by day and hosted singles parties by night. Which brings me to today.
We dissolved AmberMay and I created this playbook, which you’ll get to know is the transformational methodology I designed based off of my work with Emotional Intelligence.
I’ve been busy over the past five years...
I’ve traveled nationally researching Emotional Intelligence, studying Positive Psychology & The Psychology of Love, and mentoring under intimacy and body language experts. I am now known as Salt Lake City’s Relationship and Personal Development Expert, with a monthly Good Things Utah segment on ABC.
To say I’m obsessed with transformation is an understatement (says the reality personality, turned DJ, turned yoga instructor, turned matchmaker, turned transformational advisor…)
And if you’re not quite ready to take the plunge (or even if you are), you can get your feet wet with free advice via my newsletter.
Shelley was in a long term relationship that wasn’t working. she felt totally misunderstood and it was one fight after another.
Shelley and her boyfriend had been dating for 5 years and lately it had been a constant battle. She had been out of the dating game for so long that she couldn’t even stomach thinking about starting from square one with someone.
TESTIMONIAL: Navigating the do’s and don’ts of dating could not have been a bigger burden, which is one of the reasons I stayed in my relationship so long. Baya’s support was the only way I could have picked myself up, dusted myself off, and found the bravery to start putting myself out there again. To be honest, I’m having so much fun dating, I don’t know if I’ll ever want to get into a relationship again!
Shelley discovered her underlying beliefs about herself that were the real reasons she stayed in the relationship. After 2 weeks of working together she had broken it off with her now ex boyfriend. After 3 months she was dating again, and was having the best time playing the field.
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|Seduction101||April 9th 2015||
7-10pm Lost Society Washington, DC
Learn to use the ability to monitor your emotions to guide thinking and behavior. This supports improvement in relationships, business, and overall happiness levels.
Learn why living your highest purpose and truth is essential to creating attraction and a thriving relationship. Find what steps to take to hold yourself to your highest potential in all areas of your life.
We'll look at internal and external validation sources to learn about perceived value. Discover what conscious and unconscious habits you've formed that are holding you back and take deliberate action towards goals that assist you in becoming your most elite self.
This is what attracts a woman. Without this piece, the rest doesn't matter. If you are not dominating the women you date with your masculine power, you will not attract the woman you want most.